Here's some of what you can expect...

Dating 101- All aspects of dating will be discussed here. From first dates to maintaining a relationship and everything in between, you'll find the answers to your questions right here!

Motivation & Encouragement- Helping you build self  esteem and confidence. You have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else!

Fitness & Diet- I'll discuss fitness and diet tips with you in order to promote a healthier lifestyle.

Sex Ed.- This isn't your high school sex ed. class! I'll discuss different ways you can enhance your sex life with your partner.

Culinary Cuisine- I'll be sharing some fantastic recipes with you to impress your date or to just add to your recipe book. Some will be healthy and some will be decadent!

Wine & Spirits- My recommendations for wine and cocktails. I'll definitely be sharing some of my favorites with you!

Prime Time- It's a section designed specifically for people 55 and over. Forget about  AARP, this will be fun!

I'm busy working on my blog posts. Watch this space!

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HIGHLIGHTED charity corner

Please find a charity that you can be passionate about and donate to it. This month I'm recommending fighting against the Yulin Dog Festival. Help save the dogs... 

Hi everyone, my name is Alan Lane and I wanted to welcome you to I'm really excited about this site, it's definitely

become a passion of mine.

I designed it to help singles, men and women of all ages, races and sexual preferences navigate the sometimes crazed world of dating. Whether you're dating on or off line, this site is for you!

Sometimes, all we need is a little help from someone and everything becomes more clear, someone who doesn't know you and therefore can be 100% honest and impartial. I am the someone who won't judge you and will do everything in my power to help you find exactly what you're looking for. We all have our reasons for being single but I'd like to help point you in the right direction of finding that special someone.

Maybe you're happy being single and guess what, that's fine too! This site can still be a place for you to have some fun and maybe pick up something new and add it to your life!

If you're interested in one on one conversation and coaching you can email me directly and we can set up a private phone

mentoring sessions. We can discuss in great detail how I can help you find exactly what you're looking for. No matter where you live in the United States or for that matter "The World", I look forward to speaking with you and getting to know you. Just check out my "Coaching" page to find out more!

You may also be interested in just viewing my page where you can see all the various sections and topics that I'll be adding. You'll find them to be informative and also fun. I want this to be a place that you enjoy coming to everyday, where you can just relax with a cup of coffee or a glass of wine and hopefully pick up a helpful tip or two and apply it to your daily life! Let's begin the first day of the rest of your life, we can do it together!


Alan Lane  

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"Former Chippendale and Playgirl Discovery Centerfold"  "It's A Lifestyle"

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